爱我就让我快乐

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主演:简·亚当斯,乔恩·拉威茨,菲利普·塞默·霍夫曼,迪伦·贝克,拉腊·弗林·鲍尔,贾斯廷·埃尔文,辛西娅·斯蒂文森,利拉·格兰茨曼-莱布,格里·贝克尔,鲁弗斯·里德,露易丝·拉塞尔,本·戈扎那,卡穆琳·曼海姆,阿瑟·J·纳斯加勒拉,莫莉·香侬,安·哈拉达

类型:电影地区:美国语言:英语年份:1998

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  乔伊(简·亚当斯 Jane Adams 饰)、海伦(劳拉·弗林·鲍尔 Lara Flynn Boyle 饰)和崔西(辛西娅·斯蒂文森 Cynthia Stevenson 饰)是情同手足的三姐妹,三人从小玩到大,共同度过了一段无忧无虑的童年时光。长大后,三姐妹踏入了复杂混乱的社会,亦遇到了每个女人都逃不过的情感难题。  乔伊和男友之间的关系一直都充满了纠葛。崔西嫁给了心理医生比尔(迪伦·贝克 Dylan Baker 饰),哪知道看上去仪表堂堂的他隐藏了一个肮脏而又丑恶的秘密。艾伦(菲利普·塞默·霍夫曼 Philip Seymour Hoffman 饰)是比尔的病人,一次偶然中,他邂逅了风情万种的海伦,就此坠入爱河无法自拔。与此同时,三姐妹的父母突然宣布要结束他们为期四十年的婚姻。斩1968花开时节(2018)文姬归汉父子大变身最后的香格里拉维琴河第五季野人2020罢工火种1993与春同行摩登家庭 第十一季逃跑花嫁想做饭的女人和想吃饭的女人 第二季爱上试睡师晚酌的做派年末SP为母所盗:卡蜜亚·莫布里的故事一路花香社内处刑人~她要消灭敌人~探魔导师2之王者联盟超人前传第三季无贱道二重生命火车上的女孩2016千谎百计第三季苦中带甜的滋味海景房锦衣之下之绣春刀校园点将录圣女魔咒第一季谁在你身边校花诡异事件相约在今生汤姆·帕帕:非凡之日爱的星座星际之门:真理之盒巅峰拍档第四季似曾相识最爱·你土狼湖镇灵攻略第一季

 长篇影评

 1 ) 看这个片子得要有合适的情绪

首先提醒一下有140分钟,这部片子会有两种截然不同的评价,或者上天,或者入地,我是后者了。

有一个写的满好的影评,下面是链接:
http://ent.tom.com/Archive/1002/1353/2003/4/4-73636.html


这类片子至少不适合现在的我看,也许哪一天再找出来,兴许就看进去了,也许评价也就变了,谁知道呢!

 2 ) A perfect film for 愤青 everywhere

The Song of Songs for angry youths everywhere! Projects a dark and sado-masochist view of American Suburbia, revelling in gross exaggerations and baroque parodies, and gleefully smearing all characters in gores and feces.

You will like this film if you are in your adolescence and hate the whole universe, and if you prefer to believe all adults are devious, under-sexed, "annimals of two backs", and if, as a result, you don't wish to ever grow up to register truths or half-truths, instead of cosy demonic fantasies and pent-up venom.

Which is to say, if you are an American of 15-35 years of age, self-righteous, jaundiced, poorly adjusted, out of tune with love, friendship and any kind of fulfilling relationship, and out of touch with reality.

 3 ) To Happiness

I finally finished watching this movie, I wanted to ditch it when I first saw an old and pathetic guy jerking off in the backseat of a car. That is some seriously fucked up shit. Some scenes are so depressing and disturbing. But I have to say it's a great movie. It got me thinking. Cause all those sick, twisted perverts are not so different from us, they are one of us. If they are just portrayed as "weirdos", we can just paint them with one big brush and move on with our lives; but they are not, they are normal people, just like you and me. And we have to live with the fact that deep down inside our hearts, there're something dark and twisted hiding.

 4 ) It not that that i can....

http://rogerebert.suntimes.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/19981023/REVIEWS/810230302/1023

Todd Solondz's ``Happiness'' is a film that perplexes its viewers, even those who admire it, because it challenges the ways we attempt to respond to it. Is it a portrait of desperate human sadness? Then why are we laughing? Is it an ironic comedy? Then why its tenderness with these lonely people? Is it about depravity? Yes, but why does it make us suspect, uneasily, that the depraved are only seeking what we all seek, but with a lack of ordinary moral vision? In a film that looks into the abyss of human despair, there is the horrifying suggestion that these characters may not be grotesque exceptions, but may in fact be part of the mainstream of humanity. Whenever a serial killer or a sex predator is arrested, we turn to the paper to find his neighbors saying that the monster ``seemed just like anyone else.'' ``Happiness'' is a movie about closed doors--apartment doors, bedroom doors and the doors of the unconscious. It moves back and forth between several stories, which often link up. It shows us people who want to be loved and who never will be--because of their emotional incompetence and arrested development. There are lots of people who do find love and fulfillment, but they are not in this movie.
影片让观众们迷惑,即使是导演的影迷也如此,因为我们不知道对这部影片应该做怎样的回应。是一部描写绝望的人们的悲哀的影片吗?那么为什么我们会笑?是一部讽刺性的喜剧吗?那为什么如此细腻地描写这些孤独的人?是关于人的堕落的影片吗?或许是吧,但是为什么它让我们沉重地怀疑那些堕落的人追寻的正是我们所共同追寻的东西,而片中没有丝毫的正常价值观的试点?这样一部探讨人性绝望深渊的影片给了我们一个可怕的提示,片中的这些角色或许不是什么荒诞(grotesque)的特例,而是真实存在在人性的主流中。每当一个连环杀手或者性奴役者被逮捕的时候,我们翻开报纸看都看到他的邻居们说这个恶魔“就和我们没什么区别”。这是一部关于紧闭的门户的影片:公寓的门,卧室的门,潜意识的门。影片游走于几个相关联的故事之间。它向我们展现了那些想要爱和永远得不到爱的人——因为他们情感上的缺失和生理发育不善。有很多人得到了爱,得到了成功,但是他们不在这部电影里。

Why see the film? ``Happiness'' is about its unhappy characters, in a way that helps us see them a little more clearly, to feel sorry for them, and at the same time to see how closely tragedy and farce come together in the messiness of sexuality. Does ``Happiness'' exploit its controversial subjects? Finally, no: It sees them as symptoms of desperation and sadness. It is more exploitative to create a child molester as a convenient villain, as many movies do; by disregarding his humanity and seeing him as an object, such movies do the same thing that a molester does.
那么为什么要看这部电影?它讲述了那些不幸福的人物。讲述的方式让我们看他们看的更清楚,开始同情他们,同时让我们看到悲剧和戏剧相结合的两性之间的乱事。影片是在剖析(exploit)这些具争议性的话题吗?到最后我们发现没有。它把这些东西看作是绝望和悲伤的症状。更加赤裸的剖析,应该就和大多数电影一样,把一个性骚扰儿童者塑造成一个信手拈来的坏蛋(convenient villain)。但是影片把他的人格降级,把他看作一个物体。这种做法无异于一个性骚扰者。

These are the kinds of thoughts ``Happiness'' inspires. It is not a film for most people. It is certainly for adults only. But it shows Todd Solondz as a filmmaker who deserves attention, who hears the unhappiness in the air and seeks its sources.
这就是影片给人带来的启发。这显然不符合大众口味。这必然是儿童不宜。但是这也让人们开始关注Todd这个能够东西生活中的不幸并且寻找它们的根源的导演。

 5 ) 幸福是什么

Everybody have their creepy love

and everybody maybe or not sick。

(仅仅为自己看电影的一些小感悟,想要电影资源的可以私我 我有百度网盘 但是我下载的资源字幕翻译像是机翻 建议英语好的小伙伴直接忽略中文看英文)

Happiness讲的是一个大家庭的故事 一对步入晚年的夫妻、大女儿Helen 、有两个儿子和可爱狗狗cooki及一位心理医生老公bill的Trish、还有小女儿Joy。包括一些其他人如有喜欢意淫 helen的邻居胖子 和胖女人Kristina之间每个人的小故事。

同时这部电影属于黑色幽默,电影不乏些许让大多数人不适且感到a bit of creepy or crazy的画面。如果你是一位能透人性底下本质的黑暗,却能以积极幽默的态度去对待生活的悲观的乐观主义者,那此电影你会回味无穷。

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电影的名字虽然是happiness爱我就告诉我 翻译的很好,因为电影里面讲述的就是主角如何表达对于他们所理解的爱 但观赏整部电影的细节其实都是和happiness相反,是大家不为人知的那一点点creepy和abnormal行为及想法 但最后却因为这一些相反相成又重新组合成了幸福 happiness。

我们或许都有自己的社会角色,所以我们需要扮演好,但是私底下的我们,真正的我们或许都有一些creepy之处,我们一面渴望释放真正的自己,一面却又害怕吓跑别人且渴望着被爱。能说我们是sick的吗,或许是又或许不是吧,因为哪一个都是真正的自己。

“JOY”

Joy的creepy点在于她是明显的讨好型人格,joy的爱是附和,很难对自己好,一般都委屈着自己。

开头是小女儿Joy和男朋友Andy吃饭,以为andy送戒指的joy却收到了一个刻着“Joy”的烟灰缸,

Joy said:“it almost makes me want to learn how to smoke。”

明明不太开心还却要说;“this really means something to me。”这时候的Andy却突然倒打一耙说joy不懂他的好。(摘录肯定自己价值分手语录:“I’m champagne,and you’re shit,you ,not me will always be shit.”)

摸摸Joy。但从andy的角度来说,andy也代表一类有creepy趣味如送镶金钻石的烟灰缸但可爱的人,他们或许没有好身材、或许是书呆子,但他们渴望别人懂他们,当你明白对方如 joy 并不是那个真正欣赏自己的人时候,果断及时止损是非常好的。

似乎是原生家庭对其的看法“you would end up alone without a career。somehow you always seemed to failure’’不断影响着joy“

Joy就算遇到指责也很难强硬起来,而是默默在角落画圈圈流泪类型。所以taxidiver略施展小技巧肯定赞美joy顺带强势一点便轻易上手joy,随即暴露本性,拔dior无情。还被他吸taxidiver的情人们攻击,joy呀,可长点心呐。

“胖胖”(忘记他的名字了)

他的creepy在于他对Helen的sexual幻想、一系列像SM一样“ 绑、抽、打 pump”却不敢付诸于实际行动,以及会打电话骚扰其他人然后masturbate。最后接受真正的自我,但却也是个温柔的男人,给了Kristina一场喜欢的date,陪她吃饭吃雪糕,跳舞,肯定赞美她。told her we all have our pluses(长处)and our minuses(短处),被Helen拒绝后去寻求Kristina的庇护,不禁让我悲观想,真正的爱实在太少了,多数的爱似乎都是接受一份好与寻找备胎,电影one day,还有羡慕王小波和李银河的爱,扯远了,扯回来。

(演员霍夫曼本人是奥斯卡影帝,但2016年因为吸毒过量而死亡 R.I.P。他没有英俊的外表和高大的身材,虽然骨子里充斥着着自负和不安,成功也患得患失,却显然有表演的天赋,有天赋之人已是天选之子,却从未想过锤炼天赋所需要的代价,对于有天赋的艺术家来说,这种折磨往往是双倍的:想做到心中标准的好,需要悬梁刺股的过程;做得不好,更要接受内心的拷问,敏锐和敏感交替出现,自我肯定和自我否定同时存在,哪一面是真实的自己,恐怕难以分辨。为霍夫曼献花💐)

“BILL”

bill的creepy点在于他是pedophilia,喜欢小男孩,作为心理医生却还需要寻求心理医生的帮助。在他的梦中他说“i don’t kill myself at the end。’’这或许就是他开始释放自我的一种标志了。大家或许都有一些creepy想法但都没有付诸于行动伤害别人,但作为一个心理医生应该明白怎么开导自己的他却依旧在痛苦和纠结中选择给小男孩下药并qiangjian了儿子的同学又继续伤害了别的男孩,此刻的他感动了快乐幸福。他却又是一个很好的父亲,Trish虽是母亲但不明白billy的难过与无助,是bill作为父亲在不断在开导billy。

billy认为不能“come”时候说:“i’m not normal。”是bill给予他安慰:“oh,no,billy,don’t worry,you’re normal。

bill明白 所以他说:“I wake up feeling good,but then i’ll get depressed because i’m living in reality。’’

两段对话:1 trish:“joy’ll always be alone。’’

bill:“we’’re all alone。’’

2 bill:"trish? do you love me? i mean...do you really love me?no matter what..no matter whatever....i am sick..."

Bill看穿了一切了解自己却又无可奈何的活着,他明白自己的癖好,却也渴望伴侣知道之后依旧能爱他,接受他。

“TRISH”

总是认为自己的生活是美满幸福的,透露着满满的优越感以及说着:“you know i’m just speaking to you for your own good.’’却不经意的打击joy,认为自己的丈夫就是全世界最好的男人自己是最幸福的女人,对儿子billy的疑惑甚至有点不以为然。我感觉trish有点活在自己的世界而难以洞察外部的现实,幸福与快乐对于她来说就是自己创造的“美好”的家庭。

“LENNY和MONA”

结婚四十年了严肃的父亲和以爱为生的母亲,就像是大多数的男女性,男人想要逃离,他们只想要孤独与自在,女人却不肯放他们走,她们需要爱需要安全。他们老了,却依旧也不太明白属于自己的幸福与快乐是什么

“HELEN”

一位美丽霸气的女人,我看作是新时代女性,独立自主,是作家,会约会帅哥,“成功”在于事业。但同样的都是两人对于joy所透露出的优越感,但是也有其写作的困扰,在遇到邻居家的creepy phone call后激发了内心的澎湃,但是美女见到小胖胖本人后还是选择了拒绝,抱抱胖胖。但Helen看似成功 但好似也不太明白快乐幸福是什么。

(题外话:美女姐姐在我喜欢的导演大卫林奇90年代初拍摄的双峰镇中嫩的可以掐出水)

“KRISTINA”

嗯,强悍胖胖女邻居,平时温婉可人,在遇到把qj自己的安保后直接杀掉分尸了哈哈。她的内心也渴望着爱,人人都需要。

“BILLY”

太可爱了,爱着自己的爸爸,然后全剧高潮于finally他come了并且讲

“i came”。

配合ed歌词:happiness’ you know you just can’t stay…so far away…from me。结束。

所以幸福快乐是什么,你知道,我好像知道却又不知道。

 6 ) will you fuck me? no i jerk off instead

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 短评

小孩他爸回回都要亲自示范,还有,霍夫曼每次都是恶心的胖子的角色,真的,《25小时》里还好点

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颇为震惊!这门手艺现在已经绝后了啊:就是让观众跨越道德线的体验与部分认同“坏人”的塑造手法,这个精确度感觉就像用写剧本来绣花,真就强行用剧本技巧让观众暂时忘掉道德伦理去认同人物。现在的绝大多数剧本要么不敢跨越道德线,要么拼命解释坏人为什么坏,要么借助别的力量比如政治正确,利用观众心中已经建立的秩序来保护自己……看到Happiness这样的电影会越发觉得现在这些套路很没劲儿。PS. 感觉《纪念品1》有点儿这个意思,但还是,不够坏

22分钟前
  • 力荐

类似《木兰花》的人生交叉线故事,这次放在一家几个姐妹身上,但相比其他正剧,这片子很黑色幽默啊,几个人真是一个比一个极品,里面各种人物台词真是太贱了。。。导演是纽约大学的。。

27分钟前
  • 米粒
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明明是部叫作happiness的电影,可是却看得人这么致郁,明明是喜剧却看得人悲伤,配乐还总那么欢快,也就只有结尾黑色幽默真的想笑了。

31分钟前
  • 仰望星空不好吃
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8.0;從不敏感,世事毫無原因發生

35分钟前
  • 冰山李
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This shit is crazy... Soooo good!!!!!! Funny and sad and dark. Just so my type!!!

38分钟前
  • The_Carrot
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这类由一场场相互“勾结”的小电影组成的碎块片,总是非常强烈的依赖于每个场景头里的表演,这类电影的高峰或许算《木兰花》,当然Happiness也已相当不错,将一家五口和他们各自关联的角色丢入尴尬境地,再辅以各类奇异口味的性困惑,搭建起这个可供恣意发展的重口味戏剧舞台。

41分钟前
  • seamouse
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没有看过比里面场景和人物更变态和更极端的了。看来还是要好好珍惜现在的幸福才是。我可能不是这种极端挂的电影控。

43分钟前
  • Katje
  • 还行

079 Solondz.Todd_(1998)_Happiness

44分钟前
  • 8月12日
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more interesting than dark horse!分寸感拿捏得真好

48分钟前
  • woodyallen
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Finally we are alone.

51分钟前
  • 看不见的城市
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"Come, come, you answer with an idle tongue. Go, go, you question with a wicked tongue."……不知怎得就想起哈姆雷特这两句。gogo指片中各种离奇悲催死法;comecome算本片的一道极具争议性的叙事卖点。wicked tongue则代表了导演的创作思维:消沉暗黑突破禁忌却也无妨,可不加节制多头并进这边刚喷墙那边就自杀再转一下台天啊娈童直播!……就让人难以消受了。观众情绪引领上,主旋律堆叠与全负面罗列所产生的效果是一样的,如何把握节奏控制力度索伦兹真的应该好好学学群角喜剧宗师罗伯特奥特曼。

54分钟前
  • 赱馬觀♣
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这是我看过的最奇葩的电影之一,这得是多屌丝的人才能写得出这种故事?这种台词?让我感到严重wtf的黑色轻喜剧,但这正好对路我的幽默。超级精彩的群戏,没有花哨的镜头,只有简单的讲故事,每个人物都塑造得很棒,这样的佳作得看多少平庸剧情片才能发掘呀!

58分钟前
  • 欢场华佗
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Todd_Solondz

1小时前
  • 橙子换马甲
  • 还行

- Don't worry. I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing with you. - But I'm not laughing.

1小时前
  • water
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幸福在哪里啊幸福在哪里?反社会心理学父亲公园草地梦游机枪扫射,腹黑雪糕肥妹分尸藏肉冰箱,俄罗斯混账小偷浪漫吉他一曲……在美式合家欢电影模式下,散播各种残酷恐怖,没有出路。怀念Philip Seymour Hoffman

1小时前
  • kylegun
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i'm sick , suck my life.

1小时前
  • 翠西 。o 0 O
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