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       其实很多女人都靠男人而活着，为什么男人不能靠女人而活着，影片的主人公正是这样一个“小白脸”，英俊的面庞（说实话，我不觉得长得很好看）健壮的胸肌，高大的身材，我想这是很多男人羡慕的对象吧
    做小白脸不是他的错，错的是他太滥交了，我想他要是一直呆在那个富婆家里生活会很滋润，富婆应该不会离开他吧，但是他不甘于寂寞，好像哪天不碰女人便没法活似的，也许泡妞是一种瘾，他上瘾了，随时随地都可以让女人跟他上床。
    结果他过的很惨，这种人很多人都不会同情吧。其实他很可怜。

首先，我想问一下，就没有人留意到哈利的友情吗。这是电影里表现出的人性中，我觉得唯一值得歌颂的。其他的都很不堪。当然，这不是主题。

欲望，和自作自受的挣扎，才是皮囊的归宿。男主角曾经肯定很enjoy他那种生活。但欲望总有暂停，就像每次射了之后都会有丝厌倦一样。
所以并不是遇上海伦他才渴望爱情。渴望爱情是必然的。遇上海伦只是一个时机。
但不幸的是，他们不是纯粹的爱，惺惺相惜的成分更大吧。最后的结局理所当然。他接过海伦丈夫的5美分，必须像个杂工一样离开。因为他终究是理解海伦的。
生活的压力下，如果有那样的身材，又游手好闲，事实上男主角也只能像他的第一任女友说的那样，“You are a whore.”
性质上跟男妓无异，才可把体面的生活维持下去。
如果想要爱情，那将是另一种生活。看你有没有勇气，因为即使没有海伦，也失去那个律师富婆，你的第一任女友还在那里。你只需有真正的行动。
平平淡淡才是福？想圆满爱情，必须皈依这一信条。
但谁舍得你放弃寻欢作乐的潇洒、找份工作，做个踏实的丈夫？你这个尤物，不挥霍青春和肉体，的确对不住造物主。就像你Kutcher如果不做演员，不在银幕上露肉，观众们都会惋惜，我也是。
但幸福是自己的，如果不是演员不是明星。像男主角，只是个壮实性感的帅小伙，手里没俩钱，我劝你还是早点归去。
爱情很忙，只肯兜转于年轻人之间。趁着还年轻，及时把好皮囊给厮守一生的人吧。

四颗星，有三颗给Kutcher的身材。我也只是个观众。

在男色時代，ashton kutcher算是外形過硬的。作為一個靠女人生活的男人，自然地，他很有魅力。當然了，劇情里他是一個十足的玩弄女性者。寄身于中年女友的豪宅中，穿著女友買的定制suite，開著benzG500，在女友工作的期間出去和其他女性拍拖，在女友出門旅行的時候，把夜店結識的女子拉回家里，ML。還有一次，捉奸在床。對於這一切，他遊刃有餘，練被捉到現行都可以輕鬆帶過。

       直到遇到他的S。在一家隨處可見的小餐館，遇到一位可人的性感、神秘的年輕女子。他以為，他可以想對待其他所有女性一樣對待她，可以輕鬆上鉤，然後約出去ML。她非常清晰的，乾脆的拒絕了他。接著他，又拙劣的出糗。最後，還是要到了電話。幾次date，都不歡而散。一個晚上他們終於ML，早上行了，他發現原來一樣。一個waitress怎么可能會開$80,000的poche呢？

      當真正愛上一個人的時候，他價值觀隨之改變。

      他告別了寄生的生活，拿著自己的行李去找她。她收留他，但是還是沒有接受他。兩個人之間沒有信任，產生了誤會，她過慣了養尊處優的生活，最後選擇嫁入豪門。他費勁周折去找到她，試圖勸服她，她拒絕了，在未婚夫回來的時候，稱他為送貨的fella，讓男友用$5打發掉他。

      他開始了新的生活，他找到工作，去原來女友家送貨，看到女友的新男伴，百感交集。但是，他充滿了自信。

      看完電影，我深吸了一口氣，這部電影的劇情涉及到了我身邊的一些人。充滿現實、現代感的大都市，遊離在女性中的男性，遊離在男性中的女性，美貌、身材，謊言，掩蓋了愛和信任。我相信，沒有人生下來就愿意一輩子在這樣的風塵中生活，事出有因，各取所需。在年輕時，可以貪戀紙醉金迷的生活，可以流連于體膚之間，但是有一天，鏡子會告訴自己，年華逝去的痛楚。年華逝去的時候，枕邊空無一人，看著玻璃反射的自己蒼老的臉，陷入沉思。

      不怕記不住，就怕忘不了。同樣，不怕孤獨，只怕寂寞。可以孤獨的面對喧囂風塵，可以驕傲的抗拒容顏後掩飾的蒼白靈魂，無論多么華麗的容顏，多么曼妙的身姿。只要擁有一顆可以在你無語時，能夠用眼神交流的心，就不會寂寞。

It is a story about love game. How to catch a woman, get her laid, and pay for your bill. How to catch a rich guy, get him commit and marry you.

I love Nicky. Love his 6 or 7 inches face, his body, and his careless attitude towards everything. If I was a rich middle age lawyer, I don't think I could make another decision but keeping him.

I love this movie's first half part, when Nicky still lives in Amanda’s gorgeous mansion up the hill. He is a born heart broker. He is cute, but he is not interesting. He knows nothing but pleasing women and wasting his day in the pool and making pointless phone calls.

It is so real. When Amanda found out Nicky was staying in her place, drinking her beer, watching her tv, and getting a blow job from a naked woman, they got into an argument but ended up in fucking. From that moment on, they know exactly what each other’s role is. But Nicky is naughty. He still wants to fuck around; he doesn't care Amanda’s effort to keep him. Amanda’s surgery is for no one but him. But he doesn't care. Why should he care? Anything you earn without hard effort is not exciting at all. He needs challenge. He needs someone to be his counterpart.

He enjoys the lifestyle a rich woman can provide to him, but he doesn’t like the fact how he got it. . He is a womanizer. All the women in his life are just tools. He knows how to use them so well, that he always gets what he wants.

I like the scene when Amanda waited for him for a whole night; he got pissed off and packed up. How she threw his clothes at him, how she slapped his face, how she cooled down, and offered to cook for him, just wanted to change her mind again and hope he wouldn’t leave. The details are so real. How a woman got mad, got desperate, got cooling down, changed mind, scared of losing some lovely toy……

I don’t like the following part, for I think even if Nicky is a frog, he is a great looking one. He struggled for his fate, he tried to love for love, but he got betrayed. Kind of sad. I don’t like to watch a cute and hot guy got into that kind of ending.

In this city, everyone think they are noble, there is no chance for frogs. (You gonna to kiss many frogs before you kiss a real prince. )

Every month, 30,000 people come to LA to live their dream life.
Every month, 30,000 people leave LA with a broken heart.
I never understand why LA airport’s departure and arrival are on different levels.
Now I know so they won’t meet each other.